By Dry-Jackfruit-1005 • Score: 2 • April 27, 2025 1:55 AM
Me being 21F and my boyfriend 22M, we met each other through social media by coincidentally and we really hit it off good from the very beginning, and our relationship is going great till now also. And both our family knows about our relationship. Although I had some issue with my family in the beginning because they didn't trust my choice and they thought I'm trusting someone very early and easily but I fought for this relationship so now they are little by little accepting us. But after 10 months into this relationship his parents are against this relationship and they are pressuring him a lot to break up with me. And I totally understand that it's his parents, so obviously he will choose them. But on the other hand we both really don't want to leave this beautiful relationship. And we had an long conversation when he came to break up with me and we both cried a lot. Then I said if you don't want to give up why are you giving up on me. And he told me that his parents said that, if he marries me they will throw him out of there house and they said if you still did it (the marriage) think of us dead and don't come to us for any kind blessings later on (after asking him a lot) and I'm someone who doesn't trust people words easily cus I've seen things like this before, so I really thought he's just making an excuse to get rid of me. But his mom called and he made an excuse like he is with his friends and all and his mom was shouting at him like asking did you leave that girl, when I heard that myself I really thought this guy must be going through a lot right now because of me. I cried a lot not for me but for him. And it's been going on for months he said, it's just that he never wanted to show this side cus he knew I'll be more hurt then him. But the thing is yesterday only we had an long conversation about this and we came to an conclusion we will not break up for now but the thing is he's still not sure about his parents like if they still not accepts us later on in future, he said will you be fine if I had to give up on this relationship later on due his family issue. For now I said yes I'll be fine, but the thing is when I already know I'm fighting an losing battle should I give up on him now only so that it won't hurt me more if he later on choose to give up on this relationship????
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