Me and GF were joking while texting, or so I thought, last night. We haven't lived together yet and she's supposed to be coming to NZ to spend some time with me, I'm saying this to preface the fact that our humours might be different. I'm paying for her trip as she only earns enough to support her and her parents. Please have a look at the conversation below and share your thoughts?

"GF: Posts a screenshot of Immigration NZ page with some rules about employment while on a Work Holiday Visa, highlighting the rule stating that No sexual work is allowed with a laughing emoji

Me: lololol I was not going to pay you anyways, you have to pay me

GF: I can only be with you for 3 months, no special services. I was going to pay you with my body but it's forbidden

Me: They only forbid vaginal, oral and anal are fine so be ready. 🤣

GF: I never thought you'd say shit like that to me.

ME: Soooo this was fine but my joke in response to this wasn't? ok [Pointing at her message about the paying with her body part]

GF: I never offended you, that's the difference.

GF: take care bye

Me: what does that mean?

**Crickets** "

I could apologize and try move on from this but I feel that I'll forever have to think before joking with her and would never be able to be myself, or perhaps I'm overthinking this. Something similar has happened in the past too, that wasn't even sexual..