Am I the ass hole for pressing charges on my daughter’s dad…. This is pretty recent but I need advice as the investigation is still pending. So recently my daughter has been coming home from her dad’s on her weekend visits dirty hungry and or sick after a few days home she is better and back to her normal self. The last two visits was and eye opener I asked my daughter if she was eating food over at her dads house and she replies she eats snacks a lot. Ok that explains the stomach aches. I than asked her if she showers there she said no then I asked if she is left alone and she said yes. Let me remind you she is only 6. So that’s when I was like ok I need to gather evidence to see how to go about reporting this..well spring break comes around and she goes back over there but was there from Monday til Thursday I pick her up from daycare and she smells bad so I asked her the same questions like I did before and she says yes again…this time she adds in a random thing I didn’t ask about…he and his girlfriend talks to her through a nanny camera as they check up on her instead of getting a actual babysitter. Now I’m fuming and I immediately called the police and filed a report the cops ask me and my daughter questions and she answered the police questions and they made a report I feel bad but not really cause he has a record… but my daughter comes first….she is now with me and won’t be going over there at all…also I really don’t care if I’m the asshole at the end of the day my daughters wellbeing is top priority