I 28(M) have had bad history with my previous partner 24(F) and really needed therapy to settle unsolved anger issues and mental illness. I did not care for therapy, until I bit my partner on the face while in a nightmare. Which prompted me to see therapy ASAP for the safety of her, at this time our relationship was in turmoil. We would constantly have arguments about things that occurred in our relationship, mostly trust issues on my partner side would make wild accusations in stead of just bringing them up to me. There was one incident that I had done that completely 180 the relationship, it was sexual related I would ask for anal (derived from CST) from time to time and we would always attempt. But one day we are attempting and she completely bailed out and I pushed her away, I’m completely aware of my actions now that they are unacceptable and may have been traumatizing. I am currently undergoing anger management along with therapy, I have practice so many coping techniques and have absolutely change my way of thinking. But I was also aware that seeking treatment would uncover some of my darkest traumas, and that was something I was willing to do for her. Recently she said that she does not desire to be with me because I could not guarantee her a stable lifestyle, this was after I was hospitalized, Facing 2nd Degree felony charges, and just had my 28 year birthday where I had chose her over my court case (had a paid attorney to appear on my behalf) because the days had aligned. I proposed to her to show my level of love and commitment to the relationship, she admitted that she no longer desires a relationship (which later grew to any form of relationship/communication). At that point my major clinical depression sent me spiraling where more therapy was needed, because she was my sense of purpose where I would do anything for her. The irony of it all she was once crazy in love over me and now the roles have changed she couldn’t care less. AITAH for wanting validation of the changes I’ve gone through to be with her.