So..I’m 13 weeks pregnant and found out I was high risk at 12 weeks due to my health issues. I took the blood work to find out the gender and wanted my mom to find out because she was upset I was going to have my best friend find out originally to share the joy of finding out together as family. So after her fit I let her do the work and told her if it came back in time I’d get the envelope at my apt and bring her it. Well long story short blood work didn’t come back before the appointment. Some back ground I have POTS syndrome and my blood pressure spikes and drops under stress it spikes and doesn’t drop. For the last three days she had stressed me out over lab work and getting it back and I just got to the point of it will be back when it’s back. Well at 11:30 pm it came back and I was excited bc after three long days of my mom stressing me out and almost spending 130 dollars to get another test to have it back in 48hrs for her to do it on Easter mind you I didn’t want to do because it’s a holiday and people are with family. I was to excited and didn’t really think much of it besides she wanted to know and I wanted her to find out right away so my best friend logged into my MyChart to send the screenshot of the labs to my mom and my best friend had her dad do it so none of them knew my mom now is throwing a fit because my best friends dad knew before her and she’s the grandparent and should have known first and I need to realize I’m the one who hurt her…aitah of being upset she reacted this way and started to cry because I thought I did something right to keep the stress low for me the next day?