Context I (32F) have been seeing (35M) for three weeks or so, we’ve been intimate but we’re trying to take it slow at the same time. I had a conversation with him on our 3rd date, saying that I’m not on any dating apps and don’t plan on seeing someone else. Is it ok if he does the same? He agreed he wasn’t on any apps. My friend has informed me that she matched with him on bumble(I had sent her a photo of him) I feel really hurt but not sure if maybe asking that of him was way too soon? I’m trying to see it from his point of view, still it really hurts.