📝 AITAH because I’m mad my boyfriend always seconds guesses whether he should defend me from his disrespectful sister in law or not ?

By pinkjade23 • Score: 23 • April 4, 2025 2:45 PM


So she has always been the type of person that just loves to include herself in personal relationships and issues. So last week she literally broke the camels back I couldn’t not take it anymore. So me my boyfriend and his brother and his wife all decided to go to a comedy show. My boyfriend decides to pick them up and drive to the place. The whole time she’s sitting next to me in the car just staring at me. She even asked me how I got my hair so long in which I told her I had extensions and she tried to reach for my head and I had to stop her. When we got to the place we decided to go get a bite to eat. So as we were walking in the restaurant I forgot to put my keys in the car so she offers to walk back to the car with me. As we are walking back out of no where she turns around and tells me that my boyfriend’s most recent EX almost got her shot. I was shocked I started to ask why and about details. She then walks ahead of me completely ignoring my questions and walks into The restaurant as if she didn’t just say somthing crazy! So I told my boyfriend what happened immediately. The rest of the night was awkward she never mentioned anything on the way home. My boyfriend and I have came to the understanding that she’s wants to start drama. But my problem is that my boyfriend still expects me to hang out with them even though she does those types of things just because they’re his family and that’s where the issue comes in because I don’t want to be around them. And it’s like he’s disregarding what I go through with them just to “KEEP THE PEACE “ !

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