me&my bf were cooking yesterday & our food didn’t get done all the way so we were in the kitchen putting the food back in the oven. well his stepmom started asking us abt if the food got done & blah blah blah. i told her the oven rack was kind of low so that’s why it didn’t get done & she came back real nasty like “yk u can move it right??” & so i just told her that my bf could have moved it when we were putting it in & she said “ok” so i said “ok” back & we went to his room to watch our show.

then he gets a text from her saying “i need to talk to you, her attitude sucks” & then she told him if i didn’t apologize that we would have to go to my house. my bf kinda was just on her side & made me feel like i was rude to her & that i should just apologize. i didnt feel the need to because i was sure we were both being rude if anything & the blame wasn’t all on me. so my bf went to go get a shower but before that they were outside for like 15mins just talking abt me (assuming but im pretty sure) so i left without my bf & a whole argument ensued after that.

maybe i was rude but i rlly dont feel like it was enough for that much of an argument to happen or for her to be that upset. & she could have talked to me abt it easily instead of involving my bf & talking abt me behind my back. i wish i could make me bf see my side but unfortunately he is on her side.

anyways i’ve decided to just not go over there for a week or two or maybe ever again but ik this will cause more issues between me & my bf because he likes being at his house. idk what to do i wish this wasn’t literally over an oven rack & maybe i just grew up & apologized even if i didn’t think i needed to. im just tired of feeling like everyone is so against me including my bf,, it’s starting to get extremely lonely.