For context we are both lesbians!

Ok so I (16F) started texting my crush (15F)(let’s call her Abby) 3 weeks ago. We talked for hours every day and after 3 DAYS, Abby said “don’t overthink tonight, but if u do, make sure u think abt me, good night❤️”

She started calling me “baby” a few times and saying “i love ya”

I eventually started flirting back and Abby would keyboard smash in uppercase and flirt in response and she would always check my online status and ask why I was still up. She’s made a joke about us having a baby too!

When we talk irl, she’s blushing really hard and stammers A LOT (she doesn’t do this around anyone else) and says “hey you” in a flirty sounding tone. Also, all my friends and everyone who knows I’m a lesbian literally tell me she “obviously has a crush on me”

This leads to today. I was looking at her liked insta reels and they all had to do w having a gf.

I was like “hmm interesting” UNTIL I checked her Tumblr and it had an explicit description of what she wanted her gf to do to her WITH THE GF TAGGED!!!

And I did more digging and found out they’ve been together since BEFORE I started texting Abby!

I feel so guilty bc I feel like I should have asked if she had a gf before flirting but idk who’s in the wrong here

and idk what to do bc we’re friends now ( I think) :(