context my husband and I spend time hanging out in our living room where he's usually sitting at his desk playing on his PC, and I'm on the couch either playing my playstation, on my phone or reading. I like no lights on personally unless I'm reading, and he rather have the ceiling light on constantly no matter the time of day. So I compromised with getting two lamps one on his desk and the other on a end table. With only turning on the ceiling light when cleaning or doing something the requires more lighting, but he'll turn it on other times and I'll ask him to turn it back off or I'll turn it off and he gets upset saying I never let him have it on and i wont compromise, when I keep saying that I have compromised with the lamps cause I would rather just use his Monitor and the TV for lighting. I feel like the ceiling light is just so bright and harsh it will eventually give me a headache. I don't know anymore, I feel like I have compromised but he says I havnt and just gets mad at me. Aitah because I keep the ceiling light off and the lamps on