Hello everyone , I know I’m not a saint but will tell you this , I (22 M) started like 2 years ago a friendship with this girl (21 F ) , we were real close as friends , almost called her one of my best friends , we hang out very now and then because I only stay on the weekends to hangout to my girlfriend and my mom so I saw my friend like every 2 months or so , she have always had this child-like attitude and maturity but never really spend the time to really find it out until this year

I introduced her to my girlfriend when she invited me to her birthday and it was all good ( April 2024 ) but the bullshit started on my fault because I was not in a good place with my gf and my dad was sick so it was a rocky relationship at the moment so most of the time I ventilated my problems or discussions with my friend ( I know it’s wrong now and I won’t make that mistake again ) , well during the year 2024 this friend started asking me if I can borrow her money because of some problems and college , during the time I helped her with the intention of receiving the money , I loaned her 900 dollars which is high in my country because we don’t gain much as Americans , well the bullshit started when my girlfriend stayed in her house on Christmas’s and I stayed in mine , later on the night this friend texted me to say happy Christmas and she went to my house , all good , she stayed a few minutes and leave but then the next day I commented it to my girlfriend and she went mad af because she told ( how a woman step foot in my house with my family but not my girlfriend )

I apologized and amend my mistake , my friend obviously knew and didn’t want to bother , well a few weeks later my friend went to my house and stayed a little while during the days with me and my mom , she started doing this child like mannerism over silly things like let’s go to this place , let’s go to this and that when I was working at home , and wanted to spend money almost every time she could , ordering food and shit , that really threw me off and I told her I didn’t want to go anywhere because I was working and not spending almost every day I saw her , buying food ( she still didn’t pay me a dime ) , she went kinda mad and then started being weird , talking about some ex or some shit

That was the last time we really interacted , she started being weird with me over text , she got back with an ex that she told me before that she was only with him to take money off him ( I told her that was hella wrong since I’m a dude ) , the few times that she texted me was to ask me for more money .

I texted her in march that I didn’t know what happened to her with me , and then she confirmed that she wasn’t really talking to me but told me she would changed that , she didnt and then this April I obviously say happy birthday to her and invited her to hang out , she told me a straight no and then this week ask me if I could borrow her 100 usd , I told her a straight no and then she unfollowed me on social media

I texted her yesterday why she unfollows me and told that we are not talking that much and that doesn’t mean anything and I told her okay , when are you gonna pay me back my money and she went mad again , I think I lost my money tbh