i (f21) am a NSFW content creator (deleted my posts so I could make this post) so I basically do hookups for rewards/paid meets. Over the years of being me, many males expect me to take cash as they've been scammed before by sending money online. i do tell them i respect their option and i wont be interested but unfortunately they don't respect mine. i do verify myself in almost every way they ask and I still get threatened with the "I'm reporting your ACC to Reddit for asking me for money before meeting" like I didn't know that was a crime ? many many females ask for a payment just to DM them. i tell you truthfully that when i do ask for a payment first, i don't ask for all of it. just something that proves you're going to pay the amount you said your giving.

soo just wondering if my personal experiences of me getting played irl (them not paying) is valid to start asking for payments first :)

PLS don't judge me❤️‍🩹