So me and my boyfriend just recently moved in together, and i’ve always struggled with my mental health. i have been diagnosed with extreme anxiety and depression along with BPD. and at times i just need left alone because i can’t be around people. and some back story i’ve pushed my limit with my last boyfriend to where i was disassociated for two years and no one knew who i was anymore not even myself. and after that relationship i went into therapy to fix it and my therapist said i just need mental health days. so this past weekend i asked my boyfriend for some time and he pouted and guilted me so i just dropped the idea of it. tonight we kinda got into an argument because i have been disassociating lately and have need alone time. so i asked him to stay in his room for the night and he reluctantly agreed and went to his room for the night. i was talking to my friends and some have said i am an a-hole for asking for my space and now i feel like a horrible girlfriend.