me and my bsf are 17 ,i live in one of the most unsafe country for women in the world, india. so there was a rape case that was fucking inhuman which happened with a doctor recently and that scared me, so i was on a call with my female best friend discussing this. we talked a bit and then she told me an incident that happened with her recently when she was coming back to home from school a guy waved at her and made the action of jerking off. When i heard this it pissed me off and i wanted to beat that guy up but i kept my calm, i asked her did you tell your parents? she said no, a lot of restrictions will follow. i in a hurry or a bit of anger replied "they should, this country is not safe its better to move around with safe ones as long as possible" she got a bit angry thinking that i am trying to blame her for what happened and replied a girl who is wearing school uniform gets raped too so it has nothing to do with clothes but then i clarified myself by telling her that most men in this country are uneducated monsters, it has nothing to do with what a girl wears, how she talks or where she goes it has everything to do with people being inhuman. i advised her to pass her college by having restrictions, having her dad drop her to places and then leave this place ASAP, she replied wdym restrictions this is a free country. i replied sure, but is it a safe country? i don't mean stay locked up in your room i mean ask your dad to drop you and pick you up. wherever you go inform your parents, do this till you leave the country.she said and do you think it will be magically fixed outside? i replied no but it will be better. You can't educate more than a billion of population out of which 80 percent of the men are not trustworthy, you simply can't and the best you can do is leave this place. i told her this country might only start healing by the time our kids have kids or maybe more future generations, there is a long way to go before any improvements. after all the discussion she stopped with her anger and finally understood me but i also feel like i might have said some things wrong, i don't know ever since i said this to her i keep thinking about it and the way she reacted to me when i said you should have some restrictions to protect yourself even though i didn't mean it in the way that you need to be locked up or it's your fault, i meant restrictions in the way that you have your loved ones around you to protect you but i still feel i said somethings wrong.