Almost 3 weeks ago I told my gf I had been self har ming for months and hiding it, so I understand the whole no locking doors thing. But when I asked how long it would be for, my gf got kinda upset with me. Was I wrong to ask? I’ve been totally open otherwise, letting my gf check my body whenever, no complaints. Plus I’ve been clean since. I just wanna poop and feel secure in not being walked in on, is that too much to ask?