Thanks for everyone support and advice on my original post. It's bin a while and I told her to send him a message and get her closure but after that I want her to block him. She was happy at first when I told her what I'd like her to do but that soon changed. Few days after she started to get silent having very late reply on my messages not ever calling anymore and when I'd call her she would decline blaming it on she is very busy. About a week of this behavior I asked her what is the problem because after she told him off ife been getting the silent treatment and that is not gonna stand with me. Her response was vague and weak saying she is so busy now and I'm trying to make her feel bad and the hole instance ended up in an unresolved fight. The same behavior continued up until yesterday day where she said that she does not want to continue ouer relationship anymore and it officially broke it off. I don't know what could have happened that would make her break a perfectly bilding up relationship but I have my suspension.