My (29M) wife (29F) asked if we could go to the zoo with our daughter on Saturday.

I already had gotten asked to golf with some friends on Saturday, and asked if we could go to the zoo Sunday instead.

She is very upset and I am in the doghouse now.

I feel bad for not prioritizing my family, but I also feel bad because I had already made a commitment and now feel flaky to my friends.

AITAH?