My husband has a peculiar way of pranking that i dont find funny at all. Basically if there is somthing I especially like he will first ask if want it. I will get all excited then after few mins he will just deny it giving excuses as to why that thing is not good for you and then laughs. I find this extremely annoying. He recently pulled this shit with my mother. She loves one particular ice cream that is not available everywhere. It takes 15 mins drive. My brother usually got it for her but now that he is abroad its not possible and my father works long hours so he comes home late. And my mom cant drive. Basically she is not able to enjoy it often.So my husband goes upto my mom and asks if she would like to have that ice cream. She got all excited but then few mins later my husband laughs and says ice cream is not good for health so he wont get it and he went back to doing something else. Now, My mom got irritated then I got irritated and then later on when i asked him to stop pulling shit like that as no one finds it funny and is sometimes hurtful he got mad saying he cant change his entire personality. And that my family is his family too so he does not always have to be so formal around them. This led to a huge fight and i said few things im not proud of and now i am regretting my words . Should i have asked my mom to let it go? Am i being too uptight? Do people joke like that? Aita?

P.S he is an amazing husband and father and is always kind and supportive. But this one thing irritates me to no end.