You were all great on my last post which was a serious issue so thought I’d ask for help on a non serious issue.

I’m a hotwife and had recently been talking to a couple on a swinging site about a threesome. They seemed great and I really liked them. They looked great on their pictures, we chatted well and everything seemed good. We decided to FaceTime yesterday mainly for verification reasons but also just to chat.

On their pictures she’s got long dark hair and it really suits her. When we started FaceTiming straight away I noticed that she had really short hair. This might sound weird but I don’t find women with short hair attractive at all and I think it’s because every woman in my family bar my sister has short hair! My mum, my aunts, my grandma, great aunts. It suits her don’t get me wrong but I just instantly lost attraction.

After a couple of minutes they could tell something was wrong and when they asked I said she doesn’t look anything like her pictures. She said she had had this style for about six months but hadn’t updated her pictures. I said “you’ve been posting pictures weekly which is one of the reasons I chose you” and they brushed it off as old photos. I told them I’m no longer interested and wished them luck in finding someone but they wanted an answer and got pretty insistent. I told them I don’t like the fact they aren’t posting up to date pics and in all honesty I don’t find women with short hair sexually attractive.

They weren’t happy and have sent some non friendly messages since and even my husband said I should have just said it’s the pictures thing.

So AITAH?