Now I know this sounds a little weird so let me explain. I tell my bf almost everything about everyone that I’m told and boyfriend tells me pretty much everything too mainly about his best friend with like girl drama and what not and I’m fairly friendly with his friend. We just found out that his mum is in hospital and they are now just waiting for the inevitable. When I first asked if there was any update he told me that and that it was a bit sensitive. This I fully understand. I do however find it a little weird that he didn’t tell me before until I asked but nothing too crazy. I then asked a little after if he knew what was going on and he just didn’t reply to that msg but instead every other one.

Obviously I don’t want to make it about us before that is clearly not that priority. However I do just find it a little weird that he wouldn’t tell me because I would without any hesitation tell him. It makes me think slightly that he doesn’t trust me fully or something. I just feel as tho it is something that will come out anyways and nothing that will effect his friend or anyone if I know. I’m also obviously not going to tell anyone else and spread that around because it is a sensitive topic I understand. He has done this a few other times with things where he doesn’t tell me little things that I don’t think are very important and especially after I have told him much worse and he loves when I do. I don’t think he is entitled to tell me everything and boundaries should be respected but this just feels like something you would share ? I don’t want to push so I think I will maybe just ask again when I speak to him rather than text and see his response.