Hello, i was recently in an abusive relationship. Both of us were seriously unwell, however they seemed to act on it to the point it became abuse. long story short: i'm traumatized. Recently i went on a private account of mine to vent my feelings, because before we had just had a talk about how we both agreed to not talk each other publicly. so i went private and made a small vent, all i did was express how i felt upset with seeing them still interact. Well, we broke no contact, and they contacted me. Long story short again, we talked it out and now its better. However, i asked them about their friends opinions on me, and they said they believe i have a victim complex. This hurt my feelings, mostly because i am a victim. I never wanted them to get involved, i forgive them, however i haven't forgotten. It still gnaws at my mind, and now i have this. Do i have a victim complex and am i the asshole?