(ENGLISH is my 2nd language so bare with me with my grammar) I 26(F) had a bestfriend 25(M). We've known each other since teenagers and got closer in college. We've become distant ever since I had a long term relationship Iand I live in a big city and he barely chat/comment on my post when he have gf also. I got back at home since 2023 and decided to take a break and focus to recover from severe anxiety. fast forward on christmas season we started to hangout back again. we go out for late night talks and midnight snacks we usually go 2-3am. we communicate almost everyday ever since. After a month we slept together but we're not sure if we like each other that much and we keep doing it since we're both single and too comfortable to each other. He told me that he broke up with his gf but she keeps messaging him like as if they never broke up. he didn't bother to reply her but decided not to use that account instead of blocking her. we communicate from other socmed and his 2nd on the main app that we used. Him having 2 accounts on that app didn't bother me at all coz he used that for gaming. I also have 2 accounts on that app because I can't block unnecessary people like my relatives/ colleagues but they're also important for some reason. so the other account that I used is my safe space. I used to believe that they really did break up because he sometimes visit his circle of friends esp. with the girls. He have lots of girl friends in his circles and his ex gf is jealous/narcissist type of person. She didn't even want him to communicate with his guy friends when they were still together. I sometimes video chat/call with him until midnight or 3am and mostly he's alone in his house. there was also even one time his guy friend stayed in his house for couple of days. So that's how I believe that they really broke up coz she's not living with him anymore. last week he told me that they got back together after that I delete all our conversations for the sake of sanity. I felt betrayed. We've been friends for so long and I was good to him. I expected that no more distant nor cutting ties this time. friends or more than friends I thought that we're still gonna have each other's back. then his gf keeps stalking me on tiktok and started to message me. she claimed that they're together for 3 yrs and I ruined their relationship. I told her that he said they broke up and it's not my problem anymore, don't act like a victim coz you're also a cheater. I called her cheater coz the reason why they broke up last year is because she's still in contacts with her exes and she likes being dominant. She likes invading on her bf's phone, jealous of almost everyone in his circle & she also likes disrespecting him as a way of teasing him. Talking to your ex and deleting convos so that nobody can read is a sign of cheating and I have the strong feeling that she's sleeping with them. she messaged me on 3 accounts on tiktok I replied and block the 2 accounts. the last account I didn't able to reply coz I was too late to read it before she delete the accounts. I replied through the guy's account instead because I know she have access on it and also her other personal socmed platforms then block and private my accounts so that she can no longer reply back to me. She told me that I'm a s*** I should have fact checked, she's not as cheap as me and I have no shame. I replied that she's wasting time describing herself, bark well doggy, both of them ruined their relationship, & use her head if she still has a brain. I then private every accounts that I have. change the name and profiles and made sure they can no longer contact me easily.