I’m a 34F, he’s 38M. I have 2 kids (7 & 5) from a previous marriage who never put me/the kids first & after suffering a traumatic ectopic pregnancy, we got divorced (5 years ago).

I was clear in my expectations when I began dating again; including seeking a serious relationship with goals = love, commitment, stability, consistency = marriage & a baby or 2.

It’s been 2.5 years now with this man and he hasn’t moved in; I now feel extreme resentment for giving everything I had into this relationship with no result. AITAH for being angry and feeling hurt all the time for there being no result? I feel my biological time clock and I feel this was my last chance. I worked so hard to nurture this relationship and I’ve communicated about this with him, on more than one occasion; it always ends up turning into either a fight or that “other things” have to happen first.