I have a friend who keeps pestering me to go to Danang when I had already told her I’m not interested in going there.

She said she just wants to travel so I suggested places like Osaka, Seoul, Jeju, Hong Kong etc. but she keeps saying “No I want to go to Danang and no one wants to go with me” I had already told her multiple times its not somewhere I’m interested in going.

Then last week she suggested Seoul so I said okay cool when?. Then She goes “I want it to be a tour since I’m too lazy to fix my own visa and you have a multiple entry visa anyway”

So I told her, I really don’t like going on tours because I like exploring non touristy places and then she says “Its because if I’m not on a tour I leave the hotel after lunch”

Then she suggested Japan today (everyweek its a different place so its getting annoying), so I told her to fix her visa and then I suggested since its always a “visa” problem with her since she has mentioned she is too lazy to fix it for a DIY trip we just go to Singapore or if she wants Korea we can go to Jeju instead.

She’s now saying Japan and she still wants it as a tour.

Mind you I’m paying for myself so I have a say on it as well.

What can I do so she can stop pestering me when I have told her multiple times what I am and am not comfortable with.

AITAH?