📝 AITAH for being friends with someone who has a girlfriend?

By Acceptable-State-784 • Score: 0 • April 27, 2025 2:28 PM


Me, (14 F) and My Ex Boy Best Friend (14 M), were friends since 6th grade, so this was around the time I had no idea what girl code was. I am going to admit, I had a crush on him. However, it soon faded after he would constantly talk about this girl. Basically I was a very awkward girl so the first time i talked to him I recommended being is “Wingwomen”, which was not the best idea speaking from that I’m a women and he has a girlfriend. Since he is delusional, he said yes and I had his number. The first time he called he needed some advice but after that he just kept calling, FaceTiming, and texting me. To the point where he invited me to go Walgreens with him. I said yes because I was young and also delulu. This got to the point where we would vent to eachother. Some of the text I questioned though, he would send me good morning text. Yes I know, how rude! After that, we were at ski club and were sitting next to each other on the lift. He wasn’t talking but he did have his hand on the lift like not his arm around me but you know when your in the car and your hang is out kind of bent? Yes like that. Some girls took that as flirting so they shipped us and said they were going to tell Felicia (that’s what we will call the gf). After that he started noticing what a bitch ass hoe he was being, and started noticing and not calling me as often. At school, I got to the point where people would start to blame me and make say that I liked him but I don’t didn’t anymore and that made me feel really bad because I did not want to lose a such a good friend. I then texted him and asked him if he made this rumor. I don’t know why but then he said tootles and blocked me. Um so I haven’t talk to him since. I don’t know what should I do. Should i tell the girl friend and show her the text? Or should I make up some petty revenge? Let me know.

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