so me(f) and some of my family (me, my sister, my cousin(f), my mom and my aunt) went on a 9 day trip to my late grandparents home to clean out their house and every since the start of the trip, my cousin has been calling me the r slur a lot even tho i told her multiple times i think it’s really disrespectful and hurtful that she’s calling me that and it’s literally a slur and she keeps saying sorry and that she won’t do it again but then she starts again. anyway, on the second night of our trip, my aunt brought out some brandy and her, my mom and i took a couple of shots (her and my mom took 3 and i took 4) and i went down to the basement to my sister and my cousin to tell them it’s late and to continue cleaning in the morning and my cousin said i look so drunk and i’m acting like such an r slur and the other times, i didn’t get that mad and i just told her to not call me that but because i was already a bit tipsy by then i asked her why she keeps calling me that and i told her she’s being a bitch and then she says i’m so retarded and she loves me but she had to tell me so i’m obviously offended because who says that to someone they love (for context i get good grades and in general i usually know more about most topics than her) so i go upstairs and because the brandy is starting to take affect and this is the 10th time i’ve been called a retard in the span of 2 days, i sit down on the couch and i begin to cry a bit. my mom notices and asks why im crying and when i tell she what’s been happening, she says i’m being too sensitive and she’s only joking ( also for context the r slur is not said a lot in our family or in our town and it is very much a slur and unacceptable). aitah for being angry at my cousin for calling me the r slur or am i being too sensitive? (sorry of there are any mistakes, i’m still a bit drunk)