📝 AITAH for being mad that my bf doesn’t actively listen

By TurbulentSandwich323 • Score: 0 • April 10, 2025 6:42 AM


I (f20) have been with my boyfriend(m21) for a few months and lately I’ve noticed him not actually listening when I speak. What really set me off was that we were on FaceTime(actively long distance relationship) and I was talking about my lore and noticed he was laughing. This confused me as I was speaking about something very traumatic. He told me he was watching ig reels which has been happening lately. Whenever we are on the phone I always listen because I think it’s a very important for a relationship. He stated that he always is doing something else when we are the phone. Is it wrong for me to be hurt about this.

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