šŸ“ AITAH for being older in my relationship?

By Infinite-Ticket6517 • Score: 0 • April 18, 2025 3:12 PM


I (14F) have recently started a relationship with a boy (13M) who I’ve liked for a while. My friends have been weird about it tho. In my past relationships they were nice to them and when they were talking about them, but in this one they’ve been the complete opposite. And recently one of them was rude to me, calling me a p3dophile for dating a boy that’s 6 MONTHS younger than me. But if I was the one that was younger he wouldn’t be called a p3dophile. This is really getting on my nerves but if I speak up then I’m the bad one?

But the thing is, I’ve always been the older one in my girl on girl relationships because I was born earlier on in the year then most people I know. This is really annoying me so I did talk to them about it and now everyone (except for 5 ppl) are mad at me for it. So, AITAH?

UPDATE 1: Tysm to most of you who have given me some advice. To the some saying I shouldn’t worry or not to get pregnant, kindly pls shut up. I may be young but I am mature, just because I’m a certain age doesn’t mean I’m gonna be immature. Do not say ā€˜break up w/ him because he’s gonna get you pregnant’ bc he’s nothing like that! And the fact you’re saying that is just disgusting tbh. But a big thank you to MOST of you that have given me advice and said encouraging things. I will come out with another update when I go back to school and see them again. (Also, just reading through some of these comments, for those that are saying things about safe sex and getting pregnant at 14: STOP! Me and my bf are mature and do NOT wanna have sex. And also, when I talked about my last relationships, I’ve only had 3, 1 with a boy and 2 with a girl, and now this one with a boy, one girl on girl relationship happened LAST YEAR and the others when I was younger and stupid! So please stop!)

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