For some backstory my boyfriend(27) and I(21) have been dating for about 4 months seeing eachother for 6-7. We live together. Yes we moved fast, but financially speaking who could live alone right now. Ever since we've been dating I've had to basically ask for him to acknowledge my request to follow or what not. Asked to be friends on snapchat asked for him for his tik tok. He always says I don't really use social media. Which clearly if you have every social platform common in the U.S. you use social media. We'll today I followed him on Instagram, he has a private account. I never got the notification that he accepted so.i asked him to let me be on all his socials he said okay. We'll I checked back and my follow request on Instagram was accepted but here's the kicker, he never followed me back. Mind you he follows every only fans model and Instagram model. And this is not the point! i don't really care about that. It's the fact that he'll actively seek out these pages and follow them. But has never once sought me out to follow me. To be clear I have looked over the last few weeks to see if he's active on there and his following(who he follows has changed multiple times). I checked his phone and, checked his activity 2 days ago and it showed that he had followed an only fans girl recently. We'll I confronted him about this and he told me and I qoute "that wasn't me" as in, Hes not the one being active on HIS Instagram, that he is logged in on and everything....like please? do you think I'm that fuckig stupid?

And yes before you come for me, I know "it's just social media" but we live in a day where your social platforms are literally looked at by everyone.