My first relationship lasted a year. It was a relatively comfortable relationship. She wasn't forcing me to meet her. But she kept waiting for me to text all the time. That was boring. I broke up after a year.

My next relationship lasted 5 years. We almost got married. But I was so restricted that my life was going to be ruined. I couldn't play games, I couldn't buy anything I wanted. If we didn't meet, there would be arguments. She was uncomfortable even me spending time with my family.

My last relationship lasted 6 months and ended two weeks ago. Even though we worked in the same place, she often wanted to see me outside. Even though we met 3 times a week, she said she still felt lonely. I devoted all my non-working time to her. I could neither play games nor spend time with my family. Even with my friends I could only go out 2 times in 6 months.

I understand that every woman likes attention, but are all relationships really that restrictive? Or have I not found the right relationship?

Just because of these kind of experiences, I don't want something serious for at least 4-5 years.