Hi I, (F20) Have three sister in laws, but in this story I’ll be only including two, Allison (F25) and Susan (F25). They are my sister in laws aka my husbands brothers wives.. My husband has no sisters so we are the only girls in the house.

I found out recently that my SILs have a group chat without me and I’ve confronted one of them about it she laughed it off and said “How do you know?” and then said they made the group chat before I got married to my husband (almost two years) and they weren’t close with me during my marriage to add me. Still now they haven’t added me lol. Also, they have this family group chat that has my husband and his brothers and their wives and Allison looked at me and said “Oh you’re not in the group..?” and then just didn’t add me. My husband then added me.

This isn’t about a group chat but about the principle. Allison wore a simple dress half beige and white to my wedding which she asked permission to wear but told me that she already bought the dress and hadn’t found anything else so I agreed because it was either that or I seem like a b****.

Also, when I come over to the family house Allison and Susan exclude me from their conversations and usually plan things and tell me last minute. Sometimes I love them but sometimes I feel as if they leave me out too much.

Also, once while me and my husband were soon to be wed and I didn’t know his character well, I saw a girl on his look screen and asked SIL if my husband was the type to talk to girls (we weren’t together yet but we were being to get together) Allison said no and then come to find out a month later she talks to my husband and tells him that I told her and I feel like she was just trying to stir up problems.

Also the girl in husbands lockscreen turned out to be his celebrity crush from his country but still why would Allison even tell him? I thought we were having a heart to heart and being girls for girls. Also that day I vented to my sisters about it and she was there which she also told him I told my sisters.

AIO and TH for feeling this way or is there something going on?