šŸ“ AITAH for being upset my best friend of 13 years is getting married and didn’t invite me? (UPDATE)

By Unlikely_Cash_4088 • Score: 92 • April 5, 2025 6:30 AM


Hey guys I hope this makes sense but I’m really pissed off and absolutely fucking disgusted

My sister messaged Dylan the night the original post was uploaded, he made up some excuse about how it was just family only, which was perfectly fine…. Until later he slipped up and mentioned that he actually was inviting friends too. Confused and wondering why he’d say they weren’t inviting friends then suddenly say they are, we asked him to clarify what he meant by that.

He immediately went unresponsive and stopped replying but we insisted and all agreed to talk about it in person over a couple of drinks.

Kayla came too, obviously she stayed sober, Dylan and my sister (I’ll call her Aster from now on) were drinking, so was I but not as much as Aster and Dylan. A bit in I noticed Dylan getting touchy with Aster and her trying to keep a fair bit of distance between them. It’s a bit weird but Dylan’s always been the ā€œI love you guysā€, wants to hug all the time, cries about how much he loves his friends kind of drinker.

By this point the planned conversation still hasn’t come up but Dylan invites Aster outside for a smoke and a one on one chat, we’re assuming that maybe whatever happened with this whole fiasco actually DOES have something to do with Kayla and he doesn’t want to say it in front of her, Aster agrees and tells me she’ll keep me posted on what happens and I stay with Kayla.

The rundown of what happened during this one on one chat makes my blood boil. Essentially, Dylan says he has feelings for us, that we’re the first girls aside from his mother that he’s ever been friends with and that he love loves us.

Dylan tries to come on to my fucking sister. She tells him no and says they better head back to Kayla and I, but he tries to yank her clothes off anyway, she texts me ā€˜help’ and I ring her and tell her that she’s gotta be getting home now and that we’re coming out to find them.

Aster tells me what happened when they’re home and we pull Kayla aside.

Kayla blames us. She fucking blames us and says we’re trying to break up their marriage, even when Aster tells her she’s not making this up and she can prove it. (She started recording the interaction when Dylan started to get really weird.) She starts making comments about the way we dress, the way we act, even makes comments about our HOUSE.

We tell her it’s time for her and Dylan to fuck off, and that when she’s stuck later on down the line and thinking about who to ask for help to make sure our names are NEVER on that list again.

So we never really got an answer about the original situation but we definitely got one of the fucking status of the entire friendship and that is they can both get fucked.

Annnd that’s where we’re at with it. Sorry if I’ve left anything out or if this is a total mess to read.

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