I (38F) not only play the guitar, but I've been singing my whole life. I have had my own solo shows, and get praised by friends and strangers in the audience for my vocals. I know I'm not a professional guitarist by ANY means. I'm a campfire guitarist at best. But as far as my vocals go... I know I have talent. My husband has told me how wonderful my voice is. He says I'm a beautiful singer. I asked him if he wanted to start a band with me. He said yes. We even made a set list together. Months and months go by. After asking him if he wants to practice our set list together multiple times, he wouldn't make time for me. Recently, another woman has been messaging him to jam with her and work on some music with her. He told me he was gonna go do that with her and possibly start a band with her. I immediately felt hurt. I told him that it hurt my feelings that he wouldn't make time for me, but he would for another woman. We got into a fight over it. He said that I'm showing signs of being emotionally unstable and that I'm projecting my abandonment issues on to him. He then said he wants to play with someone who has connections. He then brought up that I only started playing music when I met him, and that this is "his thing". I started crying. I told him that my husband was the last person in the world I thought would do this to me. Out of all the people I know, he is the only one I thought would jump on the chance to lift me up and let me be part of something. I told him this as well. I told him that I feel less important. AITAH for making him feel bad about this?.....