I broke up with my ex three days ago. He’s a great guy and was a really good boyfriend, but we just wanted different things. I thought my sister liked him because he was good to me—but no, turns out she liked him for herself.

She ran into him at the grocery store yesterday. From what she told me, he was just being polite and mentioned maybe grabbing coffee. But she jumped on that and offered to cook him dinner (she’s a chef).

Now she’s saying he looked upset and “needs a nice meal,” which… okay, but she can be really persistent, so I feel like this is totally her pushing it. What’s really bothering me is that she told me I’m not allowed to come. She says I’d be overstepping.

That’s honestly why I’m posting this—am I wrong for at least wanting to be involved or know what’s going on?