I have been with my situationship for about 3 weeks now but on Tuesday he asked me if he wanted to be more official. I really like so I was happy to say yes. He wanted to know if I was ready for sex yet and I said I would be very soon. He said he was very excited and I am to. I guess the problem is that in the past I was very promiscuous and I would do almost anything with almost anyone. I think he thinks that I am willing to do that again. My past is not something I’m proud of and I want to leave it behind.

I got the impression that he didn’t understand me so I sent him a text explaining that in the past I was willing to do a lot of things sexually but that’s just not me anymore and before we actually take the next step I need him to understand that. He asked what I was talking about and with who so I was honest and I described the acts and who I used to do them with and he called me and was so mad. I thought I was answering his question.

My friends say his behavior is a major red flag but my other guy friends say that I was a real jerk and insulted his manhood. M

AITAH?