i wont specify age/name for either of us, for privacy!!!

i (f) post on tiktok a lot since i think it makes me look pretty , which is fine, but sometimes i get comments from guys asking for my socials. normally i just dismiss it, but this time i thought the person (m) (we'll call him D) just wanted to be my friend since we had similar basic interests (some animes, music artists, etc). i said i have discord because i normally respond most on that, and we traded our users, i know i shouldnt have, but he genuinely just seemed like he wanted to be my friend.

at first it was friendly, but it progressed into something i was uncomfortable with quickly. i said his friends seem funny when he sent me screenshots of their conversations, and he added me to the server they were all on. i joined call with them all, and his friends said i was the "tiktok huzz". already i was a bit uncertain because he didnt say anything about that when we were talking.

apparently, he was in a relationship 3 days before adding me and telling his friends that.

quickly i understood what was going on, but i humored it at first because its just some guy on discord, i didnt really care about it. he quickly started texting me some more.. interesting things since i guess i was giving him signs i reciprocated, including pictures of his.. yk! i was pretty quickly made uncomfortable, but he said all these things like how much he trusted me and i felt like if i dipped out i would upset him too much.

later that night on call, i was playing a game with a chat system on screenshare with his friends, and chatting using the chat since i couldnt talk out loud. around 30 minutes into the call, D is calling me things like babe even though i had never specified thats how i felt. his friends called him out on this, and said im not his gf, so i shouldnt be called that. he then asked me to be his girlfriend on call with all of his friends, in which i felt uncomfortable. genuinely how do i say no when im in a call playing minecraft with all of his friends. so i said okay, not yes, just okay.

he got really comfortable that night, saying he loved me so much, and saying things like he masturbated to videos of me. this was the day we met. i didnt know what to do since im a pretty sensitive person and i didnt want to upset him, so i just said i was going to bed. he called me mommy 4 times during this call. i hate that. i am NOT into that. also during the call with his friends an hour prior, he asked if he could put me in a COLLAR. i just said ok bc i had no idea what to say to that.

this morning, i was on my way to a class and i realized how uncomfortable he made me feel, he said so many things that i hated. the thing is, i told him i wouldnt upset him or hurt him the night prior, so i felt like i was hurting him going against what i said.

i blocked him and all of his friends this morning, without any real explanation. so, AITAH?