By ChromaticDisciple • Score: 1 • April 22, 2025 11:16 AM
Background: She’s(F24) not been wanting to talk otp since we had an argument Thursday because she went out to go eat with her friends which I(M26) was perfectly okay with. We’re in a long distance relationship and it was on one of the nights that we’re both off so I was feeling a little bit put off but hey, I was not going to tell her she couldn’t. Well some hours passed and it was nearing like 4am and I still haven’t heard from her. Long story short I was mad the whole night because I could see her location that she went somewhere else that she didn’t even mention so I called her phone multiple times that night and that morning, nothing. texted me at 9am saying she would text me after class which is usually another few hours. Still no update as to what happened so I’m furious at this point and probably said some things I shouldn’t have said. During this argument she brought up that she feels like crap when she goes out with her friends because I’d would always get a put off when she’d go out weekends to the bar with her friends. Given this is a long distance relationship and no I wasn’t really a fan of the thought but I told her she could, I’m just not comfortable with the thought of that but I understand she needs to see her friends. I told her we could work on that after we talk about what happened Thursday to which I guess she took offense and started rethinking our relationship. Since then she’s become less responsive at texting and not wanting to call… which made me overreact a little and start texting and calling more which I guess made her more distant and said she couldn’t do this right now and that love isn’t enough to keep a relationship healthy. She hasn’t said anything since then and I’ve kindve blew up her phone more and she’s now blocked me completely. We had planned on me moving up there and us possibly getting an apartment together a few months once I get some bills paid off and money saved. She hasn’t specifically said our relationship is over or didn’t communicate anything before blocking me. Do I still plan to go up there if I’m still blocked to see where things are at, if she’ll talk and at least give some sort of closure? I know that’s overstepping the whole purpose of blocking someone but I just need opinions on the matter.
Please wait...
Fetching data...