📝 AITAH for breaking up w my bf after he said “I wanna hit you” then took it back right away.

By EmployeeCharming7245 • Score: 0 • April 8, 2025 12:16 AM


I (21f) was w my bf (21m) last night and we were just on his bed he was dozing off from driving back from LA. I was scratching his back and also squeezing any black heads I saw. He was falling asleep, which I wasn’t aware of, and it must have hurt when I was squeezing one on his back because he jolted up, drew his elbow back and said, “ou I want to hit you-“ then stopped immediately when he realized what he just said. I just got up almost in tears, sat in the corner of the bed and waited to go to the bathroom. The rest of the night I didn’t talk to him, kept my distance as much as I could and he kept apologizing while also saying what he did wasn’t okay and he wouldn’t ever get physical with me. He’s never been like this before. Never threatened to hit me or been violent with me Idk what that was last night. I also just CANT take his word 100% bc actions speak louder than words and Idk if this is the start of something bad or what. Any advice on what to do next.

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