📝 AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend over corn

By lilacrose8 • Score: 1 • April 25, 2025 12:42 AM


Im (17f) my ex boyfriend is (18m) I wont be using his real name for his sake. Me and my boyfriend met five years ago and have been dating for almost two years. I broke up with him over text last thursday and now he wont stop bothering me. For background info, we went to the same middle school. He was in the grade above me and used to be a super nice kid. He asked me out in my second year of hs and I said yes bc he was cute and kind of nerdy. Our first year together was amazing. He was such a gentleman and had good manners. We rarely had any arguments. However that all changed when we started senior year. He started becoming distant. He would rarely take me out on dates anymore and I thought nothing of it bc we had exams and all. I still had sleepovers at his house although he never left me alone in his room. One night we were watching a movie on his phone and he left to go use the bathroom, leaving his phone with me. I never went through his phone or anything bc I respect his privacy but I noticed he had tons of tabs left open and it was causing the movie to loud slower. I decided to click on one of the tabs o it of curiosity and saw hardcore corn. He had at least 20+ tabs open of the same kinda stuff. Honestly I was so disgusted that I just wanted to go home. After a couple minutes he finally came back from the bathroom and I had to excuse myself by telling him that I felt sick. Once I got home I didn’t know what to do or what to think of him. Bc the type of things I saw on his phone were outright disgusting. Like he was watching grape vids and gorey stuff. I didnt talk to him for about a week and eventually asked if we could take a break. He agreed and we didnt argue at all. He didnt even ask why which was so weird. He just went along with it. Three days into our break, so last sun/mon I decided to text him and told him that we were over. He called me multiple times but I didnt answer bc I wasnt sure on what Id say to him. I wasnt even sure if id be able to talk to him or not. I blocked him on all my socials. Since I had him blocked, he made six new accounts on insta to dm me but I privated my account so that he couldnt anymore. Honestly idk what to do. I do feel horrible for suddenly ghosting him but I cant look at him the same way anymore.

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