Okay, background info, my friend (we will call her Sara) and her new girlfriend (let's call her Daisy) are in a bad mood with me and my friend lost four friendships over this so I want to know if I'm in the wrong.

My friend recently started dating a new girl who happened to be her ex's friend. No one in my friend group had ever gotten along with this girl since she falsely accused my friend of SA towards her ex (yes, the girl she is now DATING.)

Well, yesterday, me, my partner, and two friends decided to make the most of the nice weather and go out for the day. I originally told my friend, Sara, no to her joining us since I found out about her dating the same girl who I'd held her and let her cry about after the accusations.

Well, my partner ended up saying she had tried making plans with him and he had never confirmed but never said no. She wanted my partner to leave to meet her, her new girlfriend, and her ex. Already, I was annoyed and just wanted to spend time with my partner so I agreed for her to bring them to where we were as it was only a 5 minute walk.

I kid you not, as soon as they got there, her girlfriend instantly caused drama and arguements. We decided to try ignore it as we knew that my friend did like her a lot (god knows why) even if we hated her.

They left for 10 minutes to go to the shop and we decided we were going to just text her and leave, unfortunately she left her phone so we couldn't.

They come back and her girlfriend starts having a go at my best friend, let's call him Dan, and calling him fat and ugly and a ton of horrid names.

I turned to my friend and said "Control your bitch or you and her both can leave." Her girlfriend called me rude and said it was uncalled for.

They ended up leaving after that.

I later texted her girlfriend and told her she was no longer welcome around our friends. She claimed that Dan had been rude and a bully the entire time. Me and all my friends, including my partner, agreed that he hadn't said anything to her the entire time and that she had just been a rude, snappy bitch who honestly needed to get a grip.

My two friends, my partner, and me have all decided not to talk to Sara or her girlfriend anymore. I made it clear that I have no issues with her ex and I think she's lovely but her new girlfriend and her are unwelcome on our outings.

Well, Sara and her new girlfriend think I am in the wrong and that I blown it out of proportion and could at least apologise for calling her a bitch. But I don't think I'm in the wrong at all.

So, am I the asshole?