So for context my birthday is soon and to be honest I've always liked simple birthdays and i don't like my parents spending money on me they already have a lot going on and I'm very considerate when it comes to this but my mom always goes out her way no matter what I recently suspected that she was planning a surprise trip with my partner for my birthday. So naturally i had a talk with my partner telling them that i feel like my mom is preparing a big surprise..like a trip and i don't want that i like simple things please if she is tell her not to and i was really serious . Time passes by my mom calls me and she tells me she's going to get the tickets tomorrow and I immediately freaked out. I have never travelled in my life and it was all a shock to me. Don't get me wrong I am extremely grateful but I believe that this money that was for the trip can be spent on household necessities, emergencies or even tuitions. I started crying not knowing why and begging them to not buy the tickets .One thing I regret is being mad at my partner I was shocked and I have already told them before that I don't like that but I know how much effort they put in this and I really appreciate it . They ended up not buying the tickets. I feel so guilty and I feel like a party pooper