I (23f) canceled my trip tomorrow to New York. My boyfriend (23m) and I planned this a month ago. 4 days ago, I came down with a cold, and 2 days ago it took a turn for the worst- yesterday, I tested positive for strep throat. I can’t even swallow my own spit or water without being in excruciating, knife like pain. Today, i woke up and I had a fever and body chills & I told him we need to post pone and he won’t talk to me anymore. I was the one who booked the hotel, and paid more, so I canceled it and paid him back his portion because he refused to want to move the dates, (The hotel was non refundable but offered moving the days for a one time exception) he said give him back his money instead and he’s not moving the days. and he told me to get on the plane tomorrow or I won’t see him again. I’m confused because I am genuinely in some of the worst pain in my life, I thought, I had the flu. I can’t even swallow my own spit or water, yet how am I supposed to enjoy a trip. I can barely speak due to pain. He’s not out any money because there is a flight credit and I truly do feel bad because I wanted to go as well. I prepared for it too, paying to get my hair done, I’m even out tickets for another event, but my body physically can’t do it. He said that he would’ve gotten on the plane for me and this shows how I feel about us and our relationship. If anything I’m out more financially, but it’s not about that, it’s about my health. I can barely get out of bed and don’t know how I’m supposed to make a 5 hour flight while his is 1 hour there, and I physically can’t even get in the shower. He is so livid at me I think he basically broke up with me