So basically this all started when I (22) decided to move in with my best friend (23) and his girlfriend (22) into a 3 bedroom apartment. The disrespect started when we first got the apartment. I asked them to wait to put stuff in the living room so we could all decorate it how we wanted to (sounds petty, but I didn’t want it to be like me staying in their apartment if that makes sense). I was still staying at my parents house when we first moved in for the first few days, because I didn’t have anybody to move my bed.

A few days later I came back into the apartment, the whole living room was decorated, I mean the whole living room, posters all over the walls, a couch, literally everything to their liking. And I know it sounds super immature to even care about that because they bought a couch for the living room, but it did not feel like my apartment. The behavior continued by them filling up the fridge and leaving me no room for stuff, filling up the pantry and leaving me no room, and putting their stuff in every storage closet and leaving me no room for anything.

My best friends girlfriend has never been nice to me, she says I have no friends, calls me skinny, says no women will ever love me, and degrades me in front of everybody we’re around. What really pissed me off was when my best friend let his sister stay in the apartment for 2 months in his bedroom where he keeps all of his stuff. Well his bedroom is right next to mine and I had to share my bathroom with his sister with no say about it. I said one thing about her putting all of her stuff in my bathroom cabinet and he made a big deal about it and didn’t talk to me for 2 weeks. I also told him that I was that he didn’t ask my permission and he didn’t care.

I’m the type of person to say something back if you say something that pisses me off, and whenever I confronted my best friend about his girlfriends disrespect towards me, he says that she’s her own person and that he doesn’t want to be involved and that the behavior goes both ways. I don’t see how that makes sense if she is the one always saying degrading things first and being disrespectful for no reason. A few months pass with the same behavior and I ended up getting into a relationship. She came over for the first time and met them, there wasn’t a problem. But the second day his girlfriend comes up to me and says she’ll never be friends with her, and said racist things about her when she wasn’t in the room.

My best friends girlfriend was starting to be disrespectful towards my girlfriend and called her annoying and said to stop being loud because she doesn’t pay rent (it was 2 pm and we were playing music on a speaker not even that loud btw). My girlfriend got mad at her and threatened to beat her up because of her behavior. My girlfriend also had a altercation with my neighbor because the neighbor thought she was trying to break into her car (didn’t even do anything btw, she’s just crazy) cops were called and they did nothing because my girlfriend did nothing wrong. I hit my breaking point and just decided to end the lease. I had signed the new lease about 2 weeks prior and because of that we have to pay extra fees. They also have to pack up all their stuff within 60 days and find a new place to live. A few days go by after telling them that I’m cancelling and I find cat poop at the end of my shoe. The cat has never pooped in my shoe before and I find it ironic that happened when it did. They also put on the lease cancellation that I (screwed them over). This whole thing just sounds super immature and a common case of don’t move in with your friends but I’m still gonna ask AITA?