📝 AITAH for changing the Netflix password after my boyfriend’s ex used my profile to watch OUR show?

By MiraVesper_ • Score: 5 • April 24, 2025 12:37 AM


So me (26F) share Netflix account with my boyfriend (28M). I pay for it, no big deal. Couple weeks ago, I log in and notice some episodes of a show we were watching together are suddenly marked as watched. I’m confused, until I check the viewing history, it was watched on my profile… at 2AM… while I was asleep.

I ask my boyfriend and he casually goes, “Oh yeah, SHE still had login, and I guess she used it. I think she likes that show too.” I’m like ??? He goes, “It’s not a big deal, we’re still friends, and she probably just clicked your profile by mistake.”

I didn’t even respond. I just changed the password. Next morning he’s all pissed like, "Why’d you do that without telling me?” I said, “Why was your ex using the account I pay for to watch a show we were watching together on my profile??”

He said I was being “childish and insecure.” I said he was being disrespectful and weird. He says I “made it awkward now.”

So Reddit… AITAH for protecting my peace and my watchlist? Or is he out here treating my Netflix like it’s a community center?

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