I am 17m my girlfriend is 18f and we've been together for over 5 years at this point. We're young but we've always been able to do stuff and make memories. However with being young I still have to listen to my parents since they sorta control what I do.

I missed her 18th birthday which I'm not proud of but she said she didn't like her birthday and thought it was stupid. On that day I had a Halloween party that changed dates it's a family reunion of sorts and a few others birthdays. I had talked to her about instead of sitting around at her grandma's for a few hours that we'd have a birthday date where I'd take her out to eat, watch a movie, go to anything she wanted. She thought it was a good idea and agreed until the day of where she said she felt awful that I would go to a party then be with her. I wanted to make everyone happy but I just ended up being a bummer at the party.

I had another incident where we wanted to go fishing. My parents wanted to come as a sorta double date and at the time I didn't have a car so I said fine. They had forgotten her along the way even though I reminded them they said they forgot. She was upset which is understandable but she blames me. I even tried to set up a date to make it up but she shut it down and blocked me for a bit.

Today's issue is she's breaking up with me. On Easter she made a comment about me coming over which we do from time to time. I didn't take it seriously because it was 7 ish at night on Easter and I already had plans with family. We had never talked about this and she never said a word about this, but she expected me to come. She said this is the last time something like this will happen. She blocked me and now she expects me to go to her house today to apologize.

What do I do truly, in only telling the bad stories because Im not gonna sugar coat the issues. This is mainly to show her side, I know I've chosen family over her but there's usually a reason. I've had multiple instances of me choosing her but she just only focuses on the bad. I've gone out of my way sometimes and dropped plans multiple times just to see her for a little bit. Our agreement was I wouldn't come over unless we talked about it. And she ignored me even though I told her I wouldn't be able to if she doesn't speak to me first.