šŸ“ AITAH for complaining ?

By Shot-Heron-7251 • Score: 2 • April 11, 2025 4:12 AM


So first time writing here but I just need to vent. My bf(22M) and I(23F) have been together for almost 5 years. He states I complain over the littlest things which I might, I’ll just give some examples. He collects PokĆ©mon cards and I’m not interested in that much but if he talks to me about it I’ll listen. He tends to leave PokĆ©mon cards everywhere ! And I mean everywhere, living room , kitchen, our bedroom, and our other room. If I tell him to pick them up he says I’m just going to use them again tomorrow. Also I’m sure this bugs others in relationships as well , I can’t say I’m the only one, but when he leave his clothes on the floor... If I’m home I tend to clean up , pick up our room do the bed, point is the room looks spotless. Then he comes home from work and just leaves his clothes right next to his laundry basket, his belt on the floor. His keys on the bed. Then jumps up on the bed and if I ask him to please pick them up he sighs and just says something along the lines of ā€œI can’t ever get home in peaceā€. I just don’t know, I could be in the wrong maybe I am complaining over the littlest things. There’s more i just can’t remember and write down exactly other examples.. am i complaining too much? Should I just chill?

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