📝 AITAH for confronting my partner about not posting me on social media on her birthday?

By CriticalStructure • Score: 2 • April 10, 2025 7:32 PM


Hi all,

So for context it’s my partners birthday today, we don’t live together so I sent her a card / flowers and will give her gifts over the weekend when we have stuff planned.

Basically today I posted a few instagrm stories saying happy birthday to her with some photos of us togeyher. I then noticed that she had reacted and reposted all of her friends and colleagues who done it. But just ignored mine? I questioned her and she said “oh I didn’t see it” then I said “but it says you’ve viewed it” and she then got in a mood and said “my phones playing up okay, I’ll talk to you later” and is now being very distant?

I’m really unsure here, on one hand I was just confused why she just ignored it etc but it was bugging me way too much to not mention. As she’s never posted me on social media before after a year.

Thanks :)

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