📝 Aitah for convincing my wife to go on a vacation with me instead of staying home all day

By Aggressive_Farm_7583 • Score: 3 • April 4, 2025 7:01 PM


My wife has always been a stay at home wife, I never had a problem with that, infact I encouraged her, I always wanted to keep her safe and as long as she's safe I don't care about anything else and nothing else truly matters to me.

But my wife hasn't left the home since last 3 weeks, she's stuck inside and didnt want to leave, I asked her to go outside with me for a while but she said she doesn't want to, no matter how much I tried to convince her she wouldn't just leave the house.

So I told her that I want to go on a vacation with her out of the country, my wife was thrilled and she said that she's excited and wants to go on a vacation with me.

But her sister, my sil tells me that I'm forcing my wife by taking her on a vacation and my wife probably doesn't want to go on one because she didn't even want to leave the house before and she says I must have blackmailed her.

I asked my wife again and multiple times if she wants to go on a vacation with me, my wife said she does and when I told her what her sister said she told me to ignore her and she wants to go on a vacation with me and her sister is not a good person.

I asked her to tell me exactly what's going on and if her sister hurt her, my wife said she'll tell me the truth but not now and she doesn't want me to talk to her sister without her permission and I should just trust her.

I agreed and I trust my wife and I will trust her in future but it's so confusing for me and I don't understand what's going on in our life.

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