AITAH I recently cutoff a friend of 2 years because I found out she was lying. I found out she was lying like 5 months ago and never confronted her I thought maybe she was lying from trauma but now I’m realizing the trauma was a lie too, I think she may lie for my attention and sympathy . It all started when she claims she miscarried we were co workers and I felt so bad for her so I reached out to become her friend. She became extremely clingy and started venting to me daily after about 3 months but I figured she needed a friend so I didn’t mind I was pregnant at the time so I had a lot of down time. I just wanted to be their for her because my sister had miscarried before and I remember seeing first hand how badly it can affect people. The closer we got the more she wanted me to go to everywhere with her she invited me to her church I already go to church with my husband and then she told me it was a memorial for her miscarriage remembrance so I went but it wasn’t a memorial it was just a normal service with a sermon. She then told everyone there she was bringing me to introduce me to god which I thought that was odd because she knows I have been religious my whole life. Than she started randomly calling me and say her Ex was stalking her and coming to her house banging on the door so I got her a ring camera and told her to contact the police for a restraining order (she had opened up to me about how he abused her) and than she would never bring it up again. She would tell me she’s pregnant never show me any pregency tests and never bring it up again. Told me her mom had cancer after I was venting about my parents being sick (they are really old my dad has dementia and my mom is bed bound) but when I looked at her moms facebook she had NOTHING about having cancer and looks very healthy and travels the world not a single post about being a cancer survivor I just find that odd. Fast forward to the most recent lies, she told me she was buying a house needed my help and I told her I know nothing about that to ask our mutual friend because she owns multiple properties and she got mad and said she wanted me to look at houses with her (I can’t because I literally had a newborn at the time) . Well when she asked our mutual friend, they end up calling me to ask me how did she said she has “10k” apparently & she told her she already had everything set up to gets house with a relator, but when my friend asked her who she said she doesn’t remember her exact name but she was a nice lady… we suspected she lies about a lot of things so that’s why she called me lol. She told me she got me and my husband (she was like really focused on my husband asking his sizes and what he likes) gifts for Christmas and showed up to my house empty handed and made the entire Christmas uncomfortable by openly talking about how she cried the entire day and was going on and on about her ex and her life being horrible in front of my husbands whole family while we were eating dinner when we were trying to be happy and celebrate my sons first Christmas. The last lie she told was the same week she found out I was home because my dad had a heart attack and that was that she was pregnant and that she was going to most likely get an abortion but might carry because apparently she’s high risk for every pregnancy she will ever have claiming she knows she would have pre exclampisa. Here’s the thing she did misscarry before in the 1st trimester and I only know this because she brings it up to me everyday for the past years and I really do feel for her because I can’t imagine. I almost lost my son due to pre eclampsia and had to have an emergency C section and my son had to be resuscitated and was in the Nicu for a while and she knows this. Thankfully he is much better now, the reason I completely ghosted her is because she claims she’s pregnant (this is the 3rd time she’s done this) and is saying she went though pre eclampsia with her miscarriage at the 1st trimester under 20 weeks (I think she was about 12 weeks) and so apparently she’s high risk ( i dont know a lot about pre exlampisa except for my experience but is it possible to have that in the 1st trimester?) but I never responded to her and still hadn’t and she kepts trying to message me with these urgent emergency messages and I have been completely ignoring her. There is so many more times this girl has lied to me and I’ve caught her but these are just the major lies, so AITAH for cutting off my friend 😕