Background on how we met:

I was hanging out with my friend, I was on the phone. Her guy friend had called her, so she answered. Long story short after we all got off the phone she was talking to me and telling me how he was like “Put me on with her” and this and that

That went on for about two weeks before they were on FaceTime again. He had mumbled it but I still heard him. So I took her phone and just gave him my number. It had just gotten annoying for the both of us.

Before disaster stuck:

We hung out one on one whenever we could, he would drop by after work, he doordashed me and my friend food, talked about getting me an Easter basket, just super sweet.

He helped me take care of my animals and overall he was there a lot. He stayed around for about three and a half weeks.

Moments before disaster:

So, my cousin is a photographer and she said she had an open slot between appointments if we all wanted to ride with her after church. We all agreed.

After church we meet up with her; it’s the guy I’m talking to, the one that he asked to get us together, my sweet cousin, and me.

We all get in the car and ride with her to take pictures. It was about an hour drive, super fun. We listened to music and just goofed off together.

So fast forward we take the pictures, which turned out super good by the way. Well we had a couple more hours to pass so me and my friend went and picked flowers.

Once she was done we got in the car and started on our way back home. My cousin jokes a lot so she was joking around in the car with us.

Disaster:

My FEMALE cousin was joking around, she has three kids and recently broke off a long term relationship. She was finally ready to start dating again, so as I was saying, she was joking around. Well, she’s talking and goes “How come all the 10/10 guys are gay” which me and my friend found funny.

Well the guy I was talking to stepped in and with a straight face went, “How do you think we feel? All the 10/10’s are lesbians so I had to settle for this one.”

Y’all. The car went quiet, music off, crickets. BECAUSE WHO SAYS THAT?? After that we ate and dropped him off at home.

He had left his Bible at my house so a couple days later my friend was over again and I went “you need to tell him to come get that.”

So she did, and I hadn’t spoken a word to him since that day. So he comes, I give her his Bible and I stay in my room.

He wrote me an apology. BUT!! He was saying he didn’t know what he did wrong. So why are you apologizing without knowing what you’re apologizing for?

I don’t know what to do. AITAH?